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Ladies University Lecture Archive · 19 Lectures

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Lecture 19

Relationships

Rich. Handsome. Loyal. Pick Two?

October 22, 2026

Rich, handsome and loyal: Dean Mykir asks why women keep expecting all three at retail price, what you are actually bringing to the table, and how to choose a partner based on reality instead of a wishlist.

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Rich. Handsome. Loyal. Pick Two?

Rich. Handsome. Loyal. Pick Two?

Lecture 19RelationshipsOctober 22, 2026

Rich, handsome and loyal: Dean Mykir asks why women keep expecting all three at retail price, what you are actually bringing to the table, and how to choose a partner based on reality instead of a wishlist.

"I Deserve It" Is Not a Budget

"I Deserve It" Is Not a Budget

Lecture 18AccountabilityOctober 15, 2026

Dean Mykir gets honest about money: why treating every want as a need keeps women broke, the emotional spending trap, and how to build a budget that matches your real income and your real goals.

Your Oldest Child Is Not Your Co-Parent

Your Oldest Child Is Not Your Co-Parent

Lecture 17Red FlagsOctober 8, 2026

Dean Mykir breaks down parentification: why your oldest child is not your co-parent, the responsibilities children should never carry, and how to restore the parent-child order at home.

His Mom Is the Other Woman

His Mom Is the Other Woman

Lecture 16RelationshipsOctober 1, 2026

Dean Mykir unpacks the man whose mother still comes first: the signs her hold on him is crowding out the relationship, how enmeshment masquerades as family loyalty, and where a woman draws the line.

He Only Wanted The Baby Not The Responsibility

He Only Wanted The Baby Not The Responsibility

Lecture 15Red FlagsSeptember 24, 2026

He wanted the baby, but not the responsibility. Dean Mykir breaks down the difference between wanting a child and being a father, the signs women ignore before they procreate, and why knowing the difference early matters.

Are Women Becoming Drag Queens

Are Women Becoming Drag Queens

Lecture 14Real TalkSeptember 17, 2026

Filler, Botox and hyper-feminine beauty trends: at what point does enhancement become performance? Dean Mykir asks whether women are starting to look like drag queens, and unpacks the rise of beauty culture, the architecture of the female face, and the line between beauty and costume.

They Loved You Until You Started Winning

They Loved You Until You Started Winning

Lecture 13MindsetSeptember 10, 2026

The moment you started winning, some people got quiet. Dean Mykir breaks down why success changes how people treat you, how to spot who's genuinely rooting for you, and how to stop shrinking to keep the peace.

Something Ain't Right In The Bedroom

Something Ain't Right In The Bedroom

Lecture 12RelationshipsSeptember 3, 2026

Something in the intimacy isn't adding up. Dean Mykir opens the conversation women have in private but rarely out loud: what to do when something ain't right in the bedroom, why we stay silent, and why honest communication about intimacy is non-negotiable.

Toxic Relationships Can Feel Amazing... That's the Trap

Toxic Relationships Can Feel Amazing... That's the Trap

Lecture 11Red FlagsAugust 27, 2026

The highs in a toxic relationship feel higher because the lows are so low. Dean Mykir breaks down why the chaos creates an addiction that mimics love, how to tell the difference between passion and poison, and why feeling amazing isn't the same as being treated well. The trap is real — here's how to recognize it before it costs you.

Are You a Prostitute, or You Just Dress Like That?

Are You a Prostitute, or You Just Dress Like That?

Lecture 10Real TalkAugust 20, 2026

Dean Mykir unpacks the message your appearance sends before you ever open your mouth. This isn't about shame — it's about alignment. When your presentation screams one thing and your standards demand another, you're inviting exactly what you're trying to avoid. Real talk on self-respect, signaling, and dressing for the standard you actually want.

You Want a Millionaire, But Would a Millionaire Want You?

You Want a Millionaire, But Would a Millionaire Want You?

Lecture 9AccountabilityAugust 13, 2026

You want a millionaire, but would a millionaire want you? Dean Mykir breaks down reciprocity and knowing your value before you demand a high-value partner. It's not about what you want — it's about whether you bring what they want.

Are Women Turning Into Men?

Are Women Turning Into Men?

Lecture 8Real TalkAugust 6, 2026

Are women turning into men? Dean Mykir unpacks masculinity and femininity as traits that exist in everyone regardless of gender — and why women sometimes resort to their masculinity because no one ever made them feel safe enough to rest fully in their femininity.

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